Matthew 18:23-35 (NIV) 23 “Therefore, the kingdom of heaven is like a king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants. 24 As he began the settlement, a man who owed him ten thousand bags of gold was brought to him. 25 Since he was not able to pay, the master ordered that he and his wife and his children and all that he had be sold to repay the debt. 26 “At this the servant fell on his knees before him. ‘Be patient with me,’ he begged, ‘and I will pay back everything.’ 27 The servant’s master took pity on him, canceled the debt and let him go. 28 “But when that servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred silver coins.He grabbed him and began to choke him. ‘Pay back what you owe me!’ he demanded. 29 “His fellow servant fell to his knees and begged him, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay it back.’ 30 “But he refused. Instead, he went off and had the man thrown into prison until he could pay the debt. 31 When the other servants saw what had happened, they were outraged and went and told their master everything that had happened. 32 “Then the master called the servant in. ‘You wicked servant,’ he said, ‘I canceled all that debt of yours because you begged me to. 33 Shouldn’t you have had mercy on your fellow servant just as I had on you?’ 34 In anger his master handed him over to the jailers to be tortured, until he should pay back all he owed. 35 “This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother or sister from your heart.”
What is this thing call sin? Sin is a failure that cannot be overcome by human effort. Sin is specific human failure. The servant in the parable did not simply fail the King in a general way. He failed to pay a debt. He failed to keep his word. He failed to have the open, trusting, responsible relationship the King wanted with his servants.
If sin is this specific failure, what then is forgiveness? Forgiveness is sending away our failure. It is what the King did when he released his servant. He eliminated the debt. He sent away the failure. Disaster was turned to delight. Slavery was turned to freedom. It was a marvelous moment for the servant. Forgiveness sends away the failure so it does not destroy the relationship. Forgiveness is what husband and wife do when they work through the way they have failed one another and maintain both the commitment and the love of marriage.
Forgiveness sends away our failure and does it in a way to bring about change in our life. Forgiveness happens when two events come together: the fact of Jesus and the experience of our failure. Forgiveness was at the heart of Jesus’ ministry. He told of it in His parables. And He demonstrated the power and force of forgiveness in His miracles. And whatever else we might believe about Jesus, it is clear that Jesus believed that His death was necessary for forgiveness to happen. Forgiveness happens because it is a truth seen in Jesus, paid for by His death and affirmed by His Resurrection. As with the servant, forgiveness is going in to God as a debtor and coming out debt free.
From a sermon preached by Henry Dobbs Pope August 20, 1995
© Rhonda Hinkle Mitchell